The last time is always going to be wistful. I cut Michael off, but Kat just stopped coming for it finally on her own. Snuggle time continued at the same time that nursing time had been, but it just wasn't the same. I'm really glad I nursed until they were 3 1/2 and 3, and allowed them to come for the occasional comfort suck for a year after that, but there is a time for all things, and you have a very valid reason for declaring this to be the end of the nursing time for your baby.